"you may kneel"
you may sit there for minutes or hours,
you may be touched occasionally,
or ignored completely.
you may be uncomfortable,
you may want to move.
But it’s not about you.
"you may kneel,” he said.
"Thank you, Sir."

"you may kneel"

you may sit there for minutes or hours,

you may be touched occasionally,

or ignored completely.

you may be uncomfortable,

you may want to move.

But it’s not about you.

"you may kneel,” he said.

"Thank you, Sir."

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Imaginings
No matter how hard you try and how vivid your imagination, nothing can compare to the touch of your Dom. You can paddle yourself, masturbate, and choke yourself until you are blue in the face but it will never be the same.
Why?
Control.
Because without your Dom, you still have control and therefor lack the core ingredient of submission; complete and utter voluntary surrender of control to another. You are still you; willful, self-reliant, in charge.
Sure, there is nothing wrong with fantasizing and self-pleasure. We all do it. Any port in a storm, I say. But there is nothing you can do to yourself or for yourself that can possibly give the reward of your Dom’s gaze, your Dom’s words, and your Dom’s touch. Only he can take you not only to those special places of physical pleasure but also to the dark recesses of your mind where the “Wild Things” are. The places that no one else ever sees or even knows about. The thoughts, desires and cravings that you would never share with anyone else…even your closest girlfriend.
These are the places that your Dom not only knows about, but makes his home and romps in freely. With your permission and complicity you become his playground. And play he does; sometimes with the joy and enthusiasm of a child and at others with the intensity and fearsomeness of a warrior. But at all times you are his. By your choice. Fulfilling your own desires as you simultaneously fulfill his.
Control.
You never asked for it. You do not want it. Not here. Not in this way. Save it for the rest of life. Here, you are his. And when he is not with you, it is simply not the same. Hollow. Empty. Unsatisfied. Left craving, just a little more.
So imagine and fantasize all you wish. But when you are through you will still need your other half; the dark dominant half to your submissive lightness of being.
Imagination is a beautiful and powerful resource. Without it we would not have the wild creativity that brings us such joy in D/s. But imagination can only take us so far. At some point, we must move beyond the imaginary and experience the awesome intensity of the D/s dance first hand to truly find ourselves.
Find him. Treasure him. Respect him. And above all, enjoy him. Bring your imaginings, merge them with his, and together create your own D/s dance filled with lust and joy.
Just imagine the possibilities.
Caption © For The Love of a Submissive, 2012
Image © TheRedChair.net    Model: Sybill Hawthorne

Imaginings

No matter how hard you try and how vivid your imagination, nothing can compare to the touch of your Dom. You can paddle yourself, masturbate, and choke yourself until you are blue in the face but it will never be the same.

Why?

Control.

Because without your Dom, you still have control and therefor lack the core ingredient of submission; complete and utter voluntary surrender of control to another. You are still you; willful, self-reliant, in charge.

Sure, there is nothing wrong with fantasizing and self-pleasure. We all do it. Any port in a storm, I say. But there is nothing you can do to yourself or for yourself that can possibly give the reward of your Dom’s gaze, your Dom’s words, and your Dom’s touch. Only he can take you not only to those special places of physical pleasure but also to the dark recesses of your mind where the “Wild Things” are. The places that no one else ever sees or even knows about. The thoughts, desires and cravings that you would never share with anyone else…even your closest girlfriend.

These are the places that your Dom not only knows about, but makes his home and romps in freely. With your permission and complicity you become his playground. And play he does; sometimes with the joy and enthusiasm of a child and at others with the intensity and fearsomeness of a warrior. But at all times you are his. By your choice. Fulfilling your own desires as you simultaneously fulfill his.

Control.

You never asked for it. You do not want it. Not here. Not in this way. Save it for the rest of life. Here, you are his. And when he is not with you, it is simply not the same. Hollow. Empty. Unsatisfied. Left craving, just a little more.

So imagine and fantasize all you wish. But when you are through you will still need your other half; the dark dominant half to your submissive lightness of being.

Imagination is a beautiful and powerful resource. Without it we would not have the wild creativity that brings us such joy in D/s. But imagination can only take us so far. At some point, we must move beyond the imaginary and experience the awesome intensity of the D/s dance first hand to truly find ourselves.

Find him. Treasure him. Respect him. And above all, enjoy him. Bring your imaginings, merge them with his, and together create your own D/s dance filled with lust and joy.

Just imagine the possibilities.

Caption © For The Love of a Submissive, 2012

Image © TheRedChair.net    Model: Sybill Hawthorne

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So its time for another Aftercare Awareness post.

If you play hard, love hard. Simple as that. 

A good Dominant gives care, attention, patience, and understanding. I’m lucky to have a good Sir :) I wish for every Sub to be cared for immensely. 

Aftercare is so unbelievably important!! If he didn’t provide proper aftercare, he isn’t treating you well!!

So true.

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